For the seasoned individual:

The best way to get on my good side (and receive the fastest response) is to fill out my booking form with 2 provider references, along with any usernames on review/verification boards (if applicable):


For the rookie:

If this is your first time meeting with a provider, congratulations! You're one step closer to living your best life! I'd be honored to introduce you to my intimate world, but first we'll have to get some screening out of the way to ensure my safety. The more I know about you, the more comfortable I feel and the more we can both relax and enjoy ourselves, and each other. Please send via email as many of these items as you are able:


1) Your company name and position

2) Your company website or personal LinkedIn profile

3) A photo of your business card or work ID/badge

4) A photo of your drivers license or passport

5) A Facebook, Twitter, or other social media profile

6) Your work email

7) The best phone number to reach you

8) Your age


This is the most tedious and least fun part of our meeting, but I assure you my insistence on screening means a safer experience for both of us. I take the risk of meeting complete strangers in intimate settings because the overwhelming majority of the time, I find the connections I am able to engage in deeply rewarding. Thank you for helping me feel more safe in taking these risks.

©Alexis Chantelle 2020